I've always believed in haunting, known with a certainty that people leave behind a residue, a something when they pass through, when they leave for a while or forever. This is not to say that everyone is like a snail, slithering along on a self made trail. And, it's beyond the obvious that we all leave our bodies, our fleshly containers emptied of our muchness, behind in one shape or form, be it decomposing in a box, a furtive shallow grave, or as a sad little pile of ashes on a shelf—truly, dust to dust if it is in my unkempt house. But, I digress, for you, as ever. I'm digressing from the realization that a wake is not just an Irish c